Saturday, March 21, 2009

Drops of Jupiter

I’d like to say that after I got that extension on my portfolio that I came right home and worked diligently to get my story done, so I could spend the rest of the weekend doing fun stuff.

I’d be lying, though.

No, I left the campus and went straight to Target to buy a birthday gift for a very special little boy. Then I went to Whole Foods to pick up lunch. Then, as I was checking out at the register, one of my ex-boyfriends called.

“Hey there, Goldilocks.”

We hadn’t talked since he'd called on my birthday last month, so we spent a good forty minutes or so catching up. He told me he’s doing really well. He told me that the wife and kids are doing well, too. Then he told me that my friend Josh was right about me being worth the trouble. Awww.

My best friend, Carrie, says it’s unusual that I’m buddies with so many of my old boyfriends. I’m kind of used to it now. I pretty much always end up being friends with the people I date for any length of time. I think because I always stress the whole, “I hope we can be friends” thing. And, well, because I actually mean it.

When you think about it, even if things end badly, there was good stuff there at some point. So, weird or not, I’m really glad they want to remain friends with me. I’m glad they cared enough to still care.


I drove out to Clearwater for a birthday party/barbecue late Friday afternoon. One of my co-workers has a son who is turning three. My co-worker is new to our office, and having met and become friends with his last boss while I was out in California last year, I feel a little connection with him already. We’re still circling each other, though, trying to figure out if we’re going to be friends, too.

I bought the little boy a bubble maker. I sat out on the front lawn with him and his older sister while they chased after bubbles that filled the air and fell on us like raindrops on a sunny afternoon. Then, the little boy pulled a flower from his lawn and handed it to me with a kiss.


I left the barbecue to make it out to the barn in Seminole, which is about thirty minutes away, roughly twenty minutes before I was supposed to be there to tack Kahlua. So I changed out of my party clothes and into my barn gear on the road.

It’s not as hard as you’d think, if you remember to take off the seat belt first. But, now I can honestly say that I’ve done everything you could possibly imagine doing in a car.

And in chaps, no less.

6 comments:

mimi said...

hey, Paige!
You naughty girl! Really, everything in a car? And, in chaps? :0) i know how enchanting bubbles can be, so i believe you were feeling a little (or maybe alot)superwomanish, doing the change in a phone booth thing. Except in this case, it's the car.
In fact, i think you might just BE superwoman(in chaps)!

Divine Chaos said...

lolol .. I used to change in the car all the time. It's such a time saver :p

I find it very unusual that you're buddies with your ex's too. I have only 2 that I can still speak to without daydreaming about shoving an ice pick in their ears, and one of those I've been very much in love with for years --so I can't speak to him very often without it causing weird stuff to happen in my head.

I love reading your blog :) I come over a lot, even when I don't have the time or brain power to actually comment. You always make me smile

Crazy Charm said...

Drops of Jupiter: I love that song.


I usually stress that whole, "Let's be friends thing, too." Except I definitely do not mean it.

I'm with Kim Cattrall from sex and the city--They're ex's for a reason.:)

Smart Mouth Broad said...

What is it about you Florida girls and your mad car wardrobe changing skills? LOL My daughters have always done this.

Paige Lacey said...

Meems - I'm definitely not Superwoman, but I always wanted to be! That invisible plane was so cool.

Chaos - Thanks for the comments. I wondered what you were up to and I don't have your email. Drop me a line.

Crazy - Girl, he was a friend first. I'm not gonna throw that away because things didn't work the other way. And I love that song, too. It's actually *our* song, so I thought it was appropriate here. Last time he was here for a visit, he told me he sang that song on the way home and screwed up the lyrics every time... lol

SMB - We Florida girls have all perfected changing in our cars by the age of sixteen. How else do you think we get out of those tickets when we're stopped on the way to the beach???

Barrie said...

I've never done a good job of staying in touch with ex-boyfriends. And I've never successfully changed in a car. You're obviously very talented! :) p.s. I popped over from Vodka Mom's blog and enjoyed reading yours.